The controversial comment was shared on the U.K.-based discussion website Mumsnet by user Gathering1 on Saturday, June 25. In the post, she said her grandmother had arranged a small family gathering for her wedding anniversary.
She claimed the ones attending would be “only close family,” but that her husband asked to bring his children from a previous relationship as his ex had plans.
According to a United States Census Bureau survey, there were an estimated 2.4 million stepchildren in the U.S. in 2020.
In the post, the woman asked if she was being unreasonable for being “p***ed off” with the situation.
The woman posted: “They barely know my gran or majority of my family (only spent time with my parents on occasion) and I feel bad asking at such short notice to bring two extra people to a small gathering.
“My mum was saying she thinks my gran might worry about having enough food for everyone because she was already saying she hopes she has enough etc.”
She continued: “I’ve told him it’s not on but he thinks I’m being unfair and why shouldn’t they be invited to a family gathering which I’d agree with if it were his family but it’s not and it’s not even just that but the last minute-ness of it.
“He either needs to tell his ex sorry but he can’t because he has plans or stay home with them which is a shame considering he’s known about this for ages and it’s for my gran and grandpa.”
Since being shared over the weekend, the comment attracted more than 945 responses.
Many of those who commented on the post heavily criticized the woman over her position and were quick to berate her.
One user said: “I am struggling to see how you have stepchildren that don’t know your family well enough to be invited in the first place. You do realize that stepchildren are part of your family.
“If you are concerned about the food situation make some sandwiches/ sausage rolls/chili etc and take it with you as a contribution.”
Another said: “Bloody hell, your poor stepchildren if you don’t consider them ‘close family’. Appalling.”
While a third commented: “They aren’t just two random people your husband has invited, they’re his kids. Maybe use this as an opportunity for your family (and you maybe) to get to know them better. Bring some extra food so you’re not putting anyone out.”
